ok so this one is for the ladies......and males alike(because you can atest to this). I went be club MY HOUSE on tuesday night and started to realize a certain thing that's going on in LA, women want to be wifeys but love to walk around like jump-offs. I've always been told that a person should dress for the job they want, so why wouldnt that apply to occupying the company of a man. Now please dont get it confused being in a relationship is a job(whether you make it full-time, or part0time is up to you LOL), and ladies how you present yourself to men will determine what kinda hours they put into what the two of you are doing...nowwwwwwwwwww I must give examples of the two type of women I'm talking about
These three women are the best examples of wifey material, they've always carried themselves inna distinctive, elegant, and meaningful manner. If you seen these women in the club you wouldnt say "Man i'm about to see what shes doing tonight after the club", a male would think "I have to come at her correct, cause she looks like a female that I want to take serious at some point". Please keep in mind with men, phyical attractions are a first and lasting impression and will always be subplanted in our mind for a long time.
NOW FOR THE JUMPOFFS I DIDNT WANT TO DIRESPECT ANY FEMALE BY POSTING PICTURES BUT YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE. BUT JUMP-OFFS CAN BE JUST AS BEAUTIFUL AS A BEYONCE, HALLE BERRY AND KELLY ROWLAND, BUT CARRY THEMSELVES IN SUCH A WAY THAT WHEN YOU COME OUT OF THE CLUB, LOUNGE, BAR ETC...MEN DONT LOOK AT YOU AND SAY "SHE'S WIFEY MATERIAL" THEY SAY "MY NIGGA I'M TRYNA SEE WHAT SHES TALKING ABOUT TONIGHT".....
All in all I'm writing this to say, women dont get mad when men treat you like a jump-off days after you've slept together, or when he comes up to talk to you after the club and you feel like a piece of meat, orrrrrrr you feel that he's not being genuine with what he's saying to you. Realize that you are a reflection of yourself regardless of how pretty your face is, how smooth your skin is, how light or dark your complextion is, how curvy your body is...you will and always be labeled as a jump-off that no man will be faithful,dedicated, or respectful to.......
Peace and Much Love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A.L. "The Crown Prince"